I am a father of 2 children. Below opinion is based only on my personal experience.
- Hold your baby on your arms and change her head position.
- Check the pampers.
- Give her some milk.
In case those 3 methods are not working on your baby, I guess she wants to poo. You can very softly massage her stomach or move her legs slowly up and down.( it looks like riding a bicycle. )
I would like to add some more details to each method.
- She needs to be held or burp
Probably all babies like to be rocked. You can walk around with her for a few minutes and rock her gently. I do tap very often on her back when I am holding her on my arms.
Changing position means changing her stomach position. Babies often want to burp in head up position. It’s possible that they do burp even not right after nursing. (
i don’t know why but my baby did so many times.)
- She is not comfortable with wet pampers
Just change it;)
- She is hungry
This is the most often reason of your baby’s cry. In this case you need to ask her mum to nurse or make a formula milk which needs to have 35-38 degrees temperature ( Human body temp.) . I heard from my wife that it was difficult to nurse at the beginning, because some time milk didn’t come out. I don’t know the system exactly, but my wife could nurse after all. I can’t say good advice about it, but be patient and relax. This is the best for nursing.
If your baby is still crying. You may try one from the list below.
- Give a dummy
- Change the clothes ( maybe too hot or too cold )
- Make some noise
- Go outside or on the balcony ( make sure you and your baby’s clothes are proper before going out )
Well… personally I don’t want to recommend to do this but it works.
- Take your baby and go drive*
*this may be harmful for your pocket. If you use this method always, babies cannot sleep without night drive. Probably this is the last thing you want 😉
As a father I strongly advice: DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF. This is not your fault that baby is crying. This is normal and in first 2 months a colic may drive you crazy, but after 2 months you will start recognizing what your baby wants. In this period if you have any difficulties, ask a partner or someone to support you. You need help.
If you worry about your baby`s cry , you can consult with a doctor.
If one of those tips works for your baby’s cry, please spend your free time to sew First Baby Shoes 🙂